I am not sure which hit me first, the noise or the smell. I could hear the waves rolling on to the beach, gently turning pebbles as they raced up the shore.

Then there was that unmistakable air of brine and seaweed. It was at that moment I knew I was back.

Some 30 years ago, I left Swanage – the town where I had tried, and at times failed, to grow up – for a new life in the big cities. First Birmingham and then London.

As my parents moved too, there was little reason to go back.

Three decades on, I may have changed but, thankfully, Swanage hasn’t.

The sandy bay still sweeps round to Old Harry Rocks. The high street still bustles with the same cafes and shops. Tourists still gather outside the same fish and chip shop.

Swanage Lifeboat Station and boat slipway (
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Adam Gerrard / Daily Mirror)

Asked to conjure up the image of perfect English seaside town, it’s hard to find somewhere that fits the bill as perfectly as Swanage.

It’s got a sandy beach, Victorian shelters, bright beach huts, amusement arcades, a pier and almost constant sunshine.

It is so gentle and genteel, its picture should, and does, grace boxes of fudge. My memories of Swanage are mixed.

From late September to May, the town hibernated from the rain and the wind. Then, for three joyous months – June, July and August – there was nowhere better.

Felix on Swanage beach with his grandfather (
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Adam Gerrard / Daily Mirror)

After school we would race down to the beach. We swam, we played cricket, we messed around in dinghies and fished for bass.

In my teenage years, there were beach barbecues and nights out at the only nightclub in town.

Did I appreciate all this? Hell, yes. Did I realise how lucky I was? Not so much.

Nearly one in five children in England have never been to a beach.

They have never experienced the joy of building sandcastles, poking about in rockpools, or burying yourself in the sand.

Families enjoying the beach in Swanage (
Image:
Adam Gerrard / Daily Mirror)

That is why the Daily Mirror has launched a summer appeal with the Family Holiday Association, to raise money for kids who would never normally get the chance to spend a few days by the seaside.

A donation of £10 would fund a day out for a child in a family group, £20 would help a family pay for transport to the seaside and £50 would give a kid a three or four-day family break.

The Family Holiday Association, a charity which arranges holidays for those who cannot afford a break.

It helps 3,820 families a year, but with a limited budget it has allocated all the places it can this year – which is why your donations make a difference.

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In this digital age of instant gratification it is easy to forget the simple pleasure of spending time as a family on a beach holiday.

You saw that joy on the face of Felix Stanley, three, as he tried to save his sandcastle from the waves, ably assisted by his dad Merrick and grandfather Chris.

One in five kids in the UK have never been to a beach (
Image:
Adam Gerrard / Daily Mirror)

Here were three generations and it was hard to tell who was the biggest kid.

“It’s fun and it’s safe and the water’s perfect,” says Merrick, from Bromley, South East London.

The same innocent delight could be found on the quay, where Tina Chawes watched her three sons – Adam, nine, David, seven, and Simon, six – fish for crabs.

They travelled from Copenhagen. What attracted a family of Danes to our south coast? Tina says: “I love England in the summer. It’s nice and friendly. And I like the bakery.”

Crabbing is one of the joys of going to the beach (
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Adam Gerrard / Daily Mirror)

The bakery/cafe, Haymans, was where I had my first-ever job, aged 13. It is a reminder of how little has changed.

The Tesco is now a Budgens and the cafe on the seafront is a Harry Ramsden’s but, otherwise, Swanage has taken a leisurely stroll into the 21st century.

Though there are nods to changing tastes – the ice cream stall on the front has added an “art­­isan” range to its staples.

I bump into Bruno Forte, who runs La Trattoria restaurant – another place I worked.

Jason Beattie has very fond memories of Swanage (
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Adam Gerrard / Daily Mirror)

He says: “It is busier than it was. We have a lot of festivals.

“There are also a lot of independent shops.

“When all high streets look the same, they like the fact Swanage has an independent feel.

“But the reason they come is the beach. For families, it needs to be the beach.”

Please don’t change, Swanage. If you promise to stay the same, I will not leave it another 30 years before I come back.

How to donate to our Summer Appeal

You can send a cheque, payable to the Family Holiday Association, to:

Daily Mirror

One Canada Square

Canary Wharf

London

E14 5AP

Or you can make an online donation here .

Text: To donate £1, text SEASIDE to 70201

To donate £3, text SEASIDE to 70331

To donate £5, text SEASIDE to 70970

To donate £10, text SEASIDE to 70191

  • The Family Holiday Association is a registered charity in England and Wales (800262) and Scotland (SC048203). Registered Company Number 02301337