When Raj Kapoor never forgave Ashok Kumar for outshining him at his wedding: ‘Krishnaji lifted her veil and gasped’

Just like his brother, there are many anecdotes associated with Ashok Kumar, be it from his ‘happily married life’, or upstaging Raj Kapoor at his wedding with Krishna Malhotra — something he was allegedly never forgiven for. His elder daughter Bharti Jaffery had told Quint, “Papa was there, of course. And when he went up to congratulate the couple, the bride, Krishnaji, lifted up her ghunghat to gasp, ‘Oh it’s Ashok Kumar. I’m so happy!’ Raj Kapoor never forgave him for upstaging him at his own wedding.”

Ashok Kumar married Shobha Devi and they had four children — Bharti, Rupa, Preeti and Aroop. In an old 90’s interview, Ashok Kumar recalled how his marriage happened suddenly. “It happened suddenly. When I entered the film industry, marriage proposals stopped coming because the boy was in films. So one day, I got a telegram from my father to come immediately to Khandwa.” However, on the train, he was told that they were going to Calcutta, which perplexed him. And then he was told that he was going to get married. So he was taken to see Shobha and he agreed to marry her then and there.

He also revealed the secret to keeping his wife happy. “I used to come home early. When I became a hero and producer Himanshu Rai told me that girls would be after me. I said ‘Isn’t that a good thing?’ He said, ‘No that’s not a good thing. You keep the home and hearth burning. You go home by 6:30.’ We promised (haath milao). So I would go home by 6:30, and my wife was very happy.”

Ashok Kumar remembered how he had planned a party for his wife for their fiftieth wedding anniversary. However, she fell ill a few days before and died two days before the golden jubilee. “It was going to be fiftieth. I had planned a party, that hundred people will come. Four days before, she fell ill. She tried hard to fight death, told everyone that she will attend the party and die.”

Ashok Kumar, fondly called Dadamoni, passed away in 2001 at the age of 90, after outliving his brothers.